Tuesday, April 24, 2007

我們的乖宝

從沒想到在1993年harry在LA走後,又有一隻超級可愛又乖的小狗走入我和老公的生命中.i love dogs, ever since when i was very young, dogs were always in my life. i still remember that white 狐狸狗 named ginger when i was only in primary school in taichung. then a small cute little dog named 小小 when i was in college in taipei, he died at a very young age. after that a big 球球 came, i still remember the day he got lost, mom went out to look for him......mom kept looking for him for few days and we didn't see him ever since. 之後家中又有了狗弟在東海撿的流浪狗宝貝,他活了最久,可能土狗天性較堅韌,不像前几隻純種狗的嬌嫰.五和狗弟大概是我們六人之中最愛狗的,他們二人沒有間斷過養狗.我一直到了1991年....when i heard joseph, jon and ken went to the breeder to look for puppy, i was quite mad. i did not want to have a dog at our house at that time, i was already very busy with two boys, i don't want to have any extra work in my life......but when i saw those little dachshunds, i had to agree with them.......finally we had harry. now i look back, although harry only lived for two and half years, he brought endless joy to our family. especially to jon and ken, at that time, they were only six, seven years old, harry was definitely their best pal. 相信無論他們到多大,在他們心中harry永遠佔有一个重要地位,因為在他們的童年曾有一隻可愛的小腊腸狗.....joseph and i decided not to have dogs after harry died. that kind of heartbroken feeling was unbearable........almost 14 years past, this 娃娃 came to our lives. 我們两人所有的愛毫不保留的投注在這隻又乖又可愛的宝貝上了.她已老了,又有病,不知有多少將來,但我只知她是我們永遠的乖宝.

Sunday, April 8, 2007

thankful

和李慧心同遊香港返,三十多年的朋友即使中間二十多年疏於連絡,但年少時建立的情誼是永遠歷久彌新.
她提及young people in taiwan nowdays are lack of responsibilities, 他們以享樂為主,即使家庭狀况不好也不管,累及父母辛辛苦苦見不到指望,所以她覺得好奇的是我二个兒子為何会如此懂事. what should i say? i should thank God for giving me two such good sons. i have never expected they will become who they are today. i dare not say we the parents are the "cuases", actually, they became who they are because they worked hard, tried hard and they earned everything by themselves. all we had to do was support them without any doubt. 永不停止的支持.
回首往事,我們母子之间也有過許多的爭執, especially with jon, but now the relationship between me and jon is much beyond just mother and son, we just like friends with lots lots of memories.....
jon and ken are two totally different person, we had numerous fights, but through those conflicts, we understand each other more. ken very seldom had fight with me, but we understand each other so well..... our thinking logic is the same. so i understand why he do that while other people think he is so weird......he always looks cool, but i know deep in his heart, he got the most tender and softest heart.......
i'm thankful because i have them.........